When people think about bystander intervention, Direct is often the first strategy that comes to mind. It is also one of the most challenging ways to respond to harassment. If it feels possible, if you feel confident, and most importantly if it is safe, you can use Direct to address the behaviour in the moment. The Direct strategy is about clearly naming what is happening as it happens. This does not have to be harsh or confrontational, but it does need to be clear.
What is Direct?
Direct means addressing the person who is harassing someone right away. You name the behaviour and make it clear that it is not okay. The focus is always on the behaviour, not on the person. The goal is to stop the situation and behaviour or to de-escalate it.
Why is Direct effective?
By intervening directly, you show that harassment is not ignored or normalised. For the person being targeted, this can be incredibly supportive: someone speaks up and says out loud what they may not feel able or safe to say themselves. At the same time, it can confront the person causing harm with the impact of their behaviour, which is sometimes enough to make it stop.
How can you use Direct?
- Name what you see: For example, say “Stop, this is not okay.” or “I see that this is unwanted.”
- Use short and clear language: Keep it simple and calm. You do not need to explain yourself or start a discussion.
- Stay respectful and safe: Shouting or insulting often increases tension. Choose a calm tone and always prioritise your own safety.
Direct intervention is not the right choice in every situation. If it feels unsafe, it can be just as powerful to use another D, such as Distract or Delegate.
The difference you can make
With Delegate, you don’t have to do everything alone. By using the power of teamwork, you ensure that the person being harassed doesn’t face the situation alone. Additionally, collaborating with others allows for more effective and safer intervention.
Want to learn more about Delegate and other strategies for safe intervention? Join the #DoeMeeMet5D training by Fairspace and discover how you can make a difference. Together, we can create a safer and more respectful environment.
