Matheus Santana, a Brazilian who found a second home in The Netherlands, shares his experiences and transformation as a bystander through his work with Fairspace. Santana’s journey unfolds, revealing valuable insights into bystander intervention and the impact of creating a culture that supports it. “I’ve been with Fairspace for an extended period. We initiated our collaboration during the pandemic when I was capturing moments at events. Now, three years later, I’m actively involved in crafting social media content. It truly feels like a full circle moment.”
Working with Fairspace has notably shifted his perspective. “As a queer man, I have consistently positioned myself as an ally against street harassment. If I had known about the 5D’s back then, many situation I’ve been through would have been different.” Matheus Santana’s journey exemplifies the transformative power of bystander intervention and the crucial role of organizations like Fairspace.
Santana shares a personal incident on a train where he faced homophobic taunts. Feeling powerless and alone, he underscores the potential impact of bystander intervention. “Once I was alone in the train and a guy started screaming homophobic jokes towards me and I simply did not know how to react. In situations like this you can feel super weak and powerless.”
One structured approach to effective bystander intervention that Santana advocates is the utilization of the 5D’s. These principles—Distract, Delegate, Document, Delay, and Direct—serve as a comprehensive toolkit. Understanding and applying the 5D’s can empower bystanders to respond effectively, transforming them into informed and compassionate interveners.
The experience prompted Santana to contemplate ways to create a culture that encourages and supports bystander intervention. Education and awareness, are crucial components. Training programs, specific guidance on intervention strategies, and real-life examples empower individuals to recognize situations requiring intervention. Santana advocates for a proactive approach in fostering a culture that values empathy, compassion, and mutual support.
Matheus Santana’s story shows how stepping in can make a big difference, and organizations like Fairspace play a crucial role. By sharing his experiences and urging for cultural changes, he inspires people to be better bystanders, creating communities where helping out is natural. His journey is a powerful example of how personal growth, education, and empathy can bring positive change.